--- title: Find People Ready to Start a Family | Modamily description: Single and want a baby? Considering a sperm bank, sperm donor, or co-parent? Join our community and find like-minded adults looking to start a family. --- [Skip to content](https://www.modamily.com#main-content) [![Banner-logo](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Banner-logo.webp?width=556&height=134&name=Banner-logo.webp)Homepage](https://www.modamily.com/?hsLang=en) - [Login](https://app.modamily.com/login) [Sign Up for Free](https://www.modamily.com/#form) - [Login](https://app.modamily.com/login) [Sign Up for Free](https://www.modamily.com/#form) # Find People Ready to Start a Family Join the fastest‑growing global community for people who want to become parents with intention - through co‑parenting, dating with purpose, or known sperm donation. [Get Started Free](https://www.modamily.com#form) [Explore Your Options](https://www.modamily.com#more) ![App-Mockup](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/App-Mockup.png?width=400&height=590&name=App-Mockup.png "App-Mockup") As featured in ![The-New-york](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/The-New-york.png?width=350&height=47&name=The-New-york.png) ![The-washington-post](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/The-washington-post.png?width=323&height=52&name=The-washington-post.png) ![abc-News](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/abc-News.png?width=194&height=69&name=abc-News.png) ![bbc-1](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/bbc-1.png?width=216&height=63&name=bbc-1.png) ![wsj](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/wsj.png?width=89&height=48&name=wsj.png) ![Good-Morning-America](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Good-Morning-America.png?width=173&height=76&name=Good-Morning-America.png) ![Dating and Families](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Dating%20and%20Families.jpg?width=1200&height=960&name=Dating%20and%20Families.jpg) ## Why Modamily Exists Intentional parenthood is one of the fastest-growing shifts in modern family-building. More people are choosing to build families without waiting for traditional timelines, roles, or romantic structures to align perfectly — and they want clarity, consent, and alignment from the start. Modamily is a modern family-building platform designed to support people exploring intentional paths to parenthood outside of traditional dating. We help individuals and families connect with aligned co-parents and known sperm donors — thoughtfully, safely, and transparently. Founded in 2011 by **Ivan Fatovic**, Modamily pioneered this space and has grown into the world’s largest known-donor and co-parenting matching community. [Get Started Now](https://www.modamily.com#form) ## 3 Ways People Build Families on Modamily ### Co-Parenting Raise a child with a partner — romantic or platonic — with shared expectations from the beginning. [Learn More](https://www.modamily.com#form) ### Dating → Leading to Family Build a romantic relationship where family goals are aligned early, not postponed. [Learn More](https://www.modamily.com#form) ### Known Sperm Donation Connect with known donors or become a donor yourself — prioritizing transparency, consent, and informed decision-making. [Learn More](https://www.modamily.com#form)   **Modamily isn’t about dating for fun.** It’s about helping people build families with intention, clarity, and choice. ## The Three Paths to Parenthood on Modamily Everything we do is built around three intentional paths to parenthood. ![AdobeStock_273660876](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/AdobeStock_273660876.jpg?width=1024&height=819&name=AdobeStock_273660876.jpg) ### Intentional Co‑Parenting **Find a platonic co-parent aligned with your values, vision, and readiness.** Many people don’t want to wait for romance to begin parenthood. Modamily enables intentional co-parenting through transparency, structure, and informed decision-making from the start. **Support includes:** - Profile moderation and identity verification - Tools to set expectations early around roles, timelines, and values - Guidance on parenting frameworks and legal considerations (via education and referrals) [Find a Co‑Parent](https://www.modamily.com#form) ![Matching Services](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Matching%20Services.png?width=714&height=706&name=Matching%20Services.png) ### Dating → Leading to Family **Meet people who are dating with intention and open to building a family.** Tired of mainstream dating apps built around casual connections and unclear intentions? Modamily reimagines dating for people who know they want children — sooner or later — and want honest conversations from the beginning. On Modamily, you’ll meet an inclusive, values-aligned community where family goals aren’t awkward to discuss — they’re the point. [Find Matches Who Want a Family](https://www.modamily.com#form) ### Known Sperm Donors **A transparent alternative to anonymous sperm banks.** Modamily is home to the world’s largest community of known sperm donors and co-parenting-minded individuals, with **20,000+ donors globally**. **Donor profiles include:** - Open-ID donor profiles - Medical, lifestyle, and family history visibility - Clear preferences around contact, boundaries, and involvement - Referrals to genetic testing and fertility professionals [Browse Known Sperm Donors](https://www.modamily.com#form) ![databage](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/databage.png?width=936&height=570&name=databage.png "databage") ![Sperm Donor](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Sperm%20Donor.jpg?width=1200&height=960&name=Sperm%20Donor.jpg "Sperm Donor") ### Become a Known Donor **Help others build families — intentionally and transparently.** Modamily also supports people who are interested in becoming a known sperm donor and want to contribute in a thoughtful, informed way. Known donors on Modamily typically value: - Clear expectations around involvement and boundaries - Transparency and mutual consent from the start - Education around legal, medical, and family-building considerations   [Browse Known Sperm Donors](https://www.modamily.com#form) ### Modamily Concierge ### Personal matchmaking for people who want expert support. Modamily Concierge is our premium, high-touch matchmaking service for individuals and couples seeking personalized guidance through complex or high-stakes family-building decisions. With over a decade of experience, Concierge clients receive: - A dedicated matchmaker - Personalized candidate sourcing and vetting - Thoughtful introductions and facilitated communication - Guidance around legal, medical, and financial considerations (via education and referrals) [Schedule a Concierge Consultation](https://meetings.hubspot.com/ivan41) ![Happy Male Couple](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Happy%20Male%20Couple.jpg?width=1024&height=819&name=Happy%20Male%20Couple.jpg "Happy Male Couple") ## Start Building Your Family Whether you’re exploring, planning, or ready to begin, Modamily meets you where you are. Join a global community built around clarity, intention, and support. “I didn’t want to wait for the perfect relationship to start a family. Through Modamily, I met a like-minded co-parent who shared my values, timeline, and vision for raising a child. We’re now raising our daughter together—with clarity, boundaries, and mutual respect.” **Sarah, 38 — Los Angeles** *Platonic Co-Parenting* “I wanted to be a parent, but not through traditional dating. Modamily helped me connect with a known donor who aligned with my expectations around involvement, transparency, and long-term planning. Today, I’m a Mom—and I did it on my own terms.” **Daniele, 42 — Miami** *Known Donor Path* “We met through Modamily knowing we both wanted children—but not necessarily romance. What started as intentional conversations turned into a deeply respectful partnership. Our son was born last year, and we’ve built a family structure that truly works for us.” **Emily & Mark, 35 & 39 — New York** *Intentional Family Building* [![modamily logo](https://www.modamily.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Banner-logo.png?width=556&height=134&name=Banner-logo.png "modamily logo")](https://www.modamily.com/?hsLang=en) - [SIGN UP](https://app.modamily.com/register) - [Terms](https://www.modamily.com/en/terms-of-use) - [Privacy](https://www.modamily.com/en/privacy-policy) - [Blog](https://www.modamily.com/blog) © 2026 Modamily. All rights reserved.