Services

Modamily Concierge offers two personalized search services.

Known Donor Search


Known donor search
Many people prefer to know the identity of their sperm donor. Unlike an anonymous donor, a known donor's identity is shared with you, and you decide together what kind of relationship works for your family.

Modamily's community includes nearly 20,000 men open to being known donors. After a consultation to discuss your timeline and criteria, we personally search our database, vet candidates, and introduce you to donors who match what you're looking for — typically within about a month.

Recipients cover any medical, legal, and travel expenses. As the legal parent, you choose the level of contact that's right for you and your child.

Known Donor Search Pricing

Known Donor Search

$6,000
one-month search
Dedicated concierge manager and advocate
Personalized consultation to define your criteria and timeline
Customized search of Modamily's database of nearly 20,000 men open to being known donors
Minimum of 3 vetted donor candidate introductions — even if the search runs past one month
Identity and education verification for every candidate
Donors agree to help a maximum of 3 families through Modamily
Referrals to fertility clinics, family attorneys, and counselors as needed
Optional donor compensation (typically $5,000) is paid directly to the donor. Recruiting outside our database is available for an additional fee.
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Good to know

  • Every donor is a member of the Modamily community who has opted in to being a known donor.
  • Donors commit to a set number of collections and to helping no more than 3 families through Modamily.
  • You and your donor decide together what level of contact is right for your family.
  • We work with your clinic, attorney, or counselor — or refer you to trusted ones in our network.

Co-Parent Search


Looking for someone to raise a child with — whether as romantic partners or platonic co-parents? Our concierge team does the searching for you.

With nearly 150,000 members in 73 countries and more than 15 years of matchmaking experience, Modamily Concierge runs a hands-on, private search built around your values, location, and parenting vision. We act as your advocate and strategic partner from the first conversation through every introduction.

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Co-Parent Search Pricing

Concierge Co-Parent Search

$20,000
three-month engagement
Private strategy session to define your family-building vision, timeline, non-negotiables, and whether you're open to a romantic or platonic arrangement
Active sourcing in your preferred cities — including outreach beyond our platform to compatible people who aren't actively searching
Minimum of 3 curated introductions over 3 months (usually more), each personally vetted
One-on-one alignment calls with every candidate before introduction
Ongoing match coaching and feedback after each introduction
Background screening
Referrals to our network of family attorneys, therapists, and fertility specialists as needed
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Who it's for

  • Singles and couples who want to share parenthood with a committed partner.
  • People open to a romantic relationship, a platonic co-parenting arrangement, or either.
  • Busy professionals who want a discreet, hands-on search instead of browsing on their own.
  • Clients anywhere — Modamily members live in 73 countries.

Prefer to Search on Your Own?


Modamily membership
Concierge isn't the only way to use Modamily.

With a Modamily membership you can create your own profile, browse members who share your vision for family, and message your matches directly — on the web or in our iOS and Android apps.

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How Concierge Works

Getting started

  1. Free consultation. A call to talk through your goals, timeline, and which search fits you best.
  2. Onboarding. You complete our concierge questionnaire and share a few photos so we can build your private concierge profile.
  3. Strategy session. We define your criteria, non-negotiables, and where to search.

Your search

  1. Vetted introductions. We screen and speak with every candidate before making an introduction.
  2. Ongoing support. Feedback after each introduction, plus referrals to attorneys, clinics, and counselors when you need them.

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