Modamily: A Platform for Co‑Parenting, Known Donors, and Intentional Parenthood

For people who want children on their own terms—through dating, co-parenting, or known donors.

For many people today, the desire to have children no longer fits neatly into traditional dating timelines.

Marriage is happening later. Fertility timelines haven’t changed. And more people—single, partnered, queer, straight—are realizing that waiting for the “perfect” romantic situation can mean postponing parenthood indefinitely.

Modamily was created for people who don’t want to leave family-building to chance.

Rather than centering casual dating or ambiguous intentions, Modamily is designed around one clear question: How do you want to build your family?

Why Traditional Dating Apps Fall Short for People Who Want Kids

On most dating apps, conversations about children happen late—often after months of dating, emotional investment, and uncertainty. Wanting kids too soon can feel like pressure. Waiting too long can waste valuable time.

The result?
People who are ready to become parents often find themselves dating people who aren’t.

Modamily removes that friction by making intentional parenthood the starting point, not an afterthought. Everyone on the platform is there because having children matters to them—whether through a romantic relationship, a platonic partnership, or a known donor connection.

What Modamily Is (and Isn’t)

It is a family-building platform designed for people who want clarity, transparency, and alignment around having children.

On Modamily, users can:

• Be upfront about their desire to have kids

• Explore different paths to parenthood

• Connect with others who share similar timelines and values

The focus isn’t on endless swiping—it’s on intentional matching and meaningful conversations about building a family.

The Three Ways People Build Families on Modamily

1. Dating With the Intention to Have Kids

Some people want romance, partnership, and children—but they want to be honest about that from the start.

Modamily allows people to date while being clear that having kids is a priority. That transparency saves time, reduces mismatched expectations, and helps people connect with partners who are emotionally and practically aligned around starting a family.

2. Platonic Co-Parenting

Not everyone wants—or needs—a romantic relationship to raise a child.

Platonic co-parenting allows two people to intentionally agree to raise a child together without romance. These arrangements are built around shared values, parenting philosophies, financial expectations, and long-term commitment.

For many people, co-parenting offers:

• Shared responsibility and support

• Clear expectations from the beginning

• A stable, intentional foundation for raising a child

Modamily helps people explore co-parenting with others who are specifically open to this path.

3. Known Donors & Recipient Connections

For single parents and couples alike, finding the right donor can be one of the most emotionally significant decisions in the family-building process.

Modamily supports known donor connections, emphasizing transparency, communication, and mutual understanding—rather than anonymity.

Some families want a donor who remains known but not involved. Others prefer someone open to a more active co-parenting role. Modamily allows users to express these preferences clearly and connect accordingly.

Who Uses Modamily?

Modamily is used by people across a wide range of identities and circumstances, including:

• Single women and men ready for parenthood

• LGBTQ+ individuals and couples

• People open to non-traditional family structures

• Those who want children sooner rather than later

What they share is not a single lifestyle—but a shared intention to build a family thoughtfully and responsibly.